This discussion between Tom Golden and Paul Elam focuses on what women need to know about men, and about themselves, in order to be close to the men in their lives.There is a great deal of information that has never reached the general public that explains many important difference between men and women in relationships.
The discussion is directed at women but might also be of interest to men. I would urge the men to watch the vid and then if they decide it is worth it to watch it with their partner. The content will likely bring out points about the masculine side of relationships that will facilitate discussion and make it a bit easier on the man to bring up his side.
Tom looks at how father's are essential and examines one research study that shows there is a biological connection to the ways mothers and fathers interact with their children. Oxytocin pushes women towards a more nurturing stance while the same hormone, oxytocin, pushes men into an active and play oriented connection. All the while the status quo tells us that men need to be more like women. Nope. Men need to be more like men! Men are good.
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The first in a series of videos on Things I Wish my Father had Told Me. Keep your eye on this playlist for videos in this series to be published. If you have suggestions for topics please leet me know in the comments.
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"Raging mother [...] avoids jail after savagely attacking love rival [...] found in bed with her ex." Guess which parts of this headline aren't true? The newspaper, judge, and even prosecutor cover for a crazed woman who viciously assaulted a complete stranger. You don't have to be a men's advocate to see the extraordinary double standards at play. Paul, Tom, and Janice discuss.
Raging Mother of Three Article
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9534771/Raging-mother-three-38-avoids-jail-attacking-love-rival-bed-ex.html?ito=push-notification&ci=149142&si=16592767&ai=9534771
O'keefe Article
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While watching the NFL Channel the other night I happened upon a DV commercial about domestic violence that included such luminaries as President Obama, Vice President Biden and some sports figures. The commercial was asking men to step up to the plate and stop violence against women. I was shocked. Was this the president who promised that his administration would be run based on science and research? Did he not realize that his own CDC had come out with stats that showed that men were the majority of domestic violence victims in the past year? If he was aware of that this commercial didn't show it. At any rate, I thought I would do them a favor and quickly give them two commercials for the price of one! This one is for men and asks the women to step up. Let's hope the NFL Channel picks it up! LOL
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A big thank you needs to go out to Kenneth Minogue for his stellar article on radical feminism and the fall of civilizations. You can find that article here: http://www.newcriterion.com/articles.cfm/How-civilizations-fall--2203 This brilliant gentleman died in 2013. I only wish I could have thanked him.
Another article that helped form this video is an excellent piece by Nikita Coulombe that had pulled together the quotes that were used. https://medium.com/@NikitaCcoulombe/why-feminism-wants-to-dismantle-the-family-long-4695d45bcf88
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Tom takes a quick look at testosterone and men.
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Pregnant women who smoke, drink, and take drugs do demonstrable harm to their babies, yet our society refuses to hold them accountable for their actions. Paul, Tom, and Janice weigh in.
March of Dimes estimates that 23% of women smoke while pregnant, killing about 1000 babies a year and causing a wide range of birth defects.
https://www.marchofdimes.org/news/smoking-in-pregnancy-confirmed-as-a-cause-of-oral-cleft-birth-defects.aspx
new framework curb births babies born dependent drugs
https://www.nichq.org/insight/new-framework-curb-births-babies-born-dependent-drugs
Substance use in women
15.4% of women have used illegal drugs in the last year....talks about neonatal abstinence syndrome (NAS). It seems that nearly all of these drugs find their way into the placenta and beyond giving the baby a similar dose.
https://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/drugfacts/substance-use-in-women
Foetal alcohol syndrome case dismissed by Court of Appeal
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Janice and Tom speak with Tim Goldich about his book Loving Men, Respecting Women: the Future of Gender Politics. The book offers a perspective on gender politics that both Tom and Janice thought was an important addition to the literature on men’s issues. Tim lays out ideas that help us understand the nature of the problem and the resistance we face along with some ideas about possible solutions. A potent section of the book is where he names 14 different types of female power that are basically invisible and almost never acknowledged as powers. It’s an interesting discussion.
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