Statistics can be confusing, and they can be used to mislead. For example, if you look at the divorce to marriage ratio in the Muslim world, you might be understandably alarmed because it appears as though divorce rates are skyrocketing. However, this statistic does not measure the number of total marriages that are ending in divorce, it measures the number of divorces that occur in a given year against the number of new marriages registered during the same period -- these two numbers have nothing to do with each other.
The "refined divorce rate" is the statistic that measures the number of divorces against the total number of currently married people -- it is still not giving us an entirely accurate picture, but it is much closer to what most of us would consider the "divorce rate"; and in the Muslim world, this figure is still quite low. It is higher than it used to be, but not much. Is it right to be concerned? Sure, but it does not warrant panic or alarmism or claims that we are experiencing a divorce epidemic. In many countries, the refined divorce rate has actually been in decline.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMZeJz0eN1Q
MuzMatch's Instagram account promotes a Feminist view of marriage, and openly refers to itself as a "dating app" -- Any serious Muslim genuinely interested in finding a decent spouse will not succeed in their search if they are looking here. Shout out to Brother Mahdi Tidjani for calling MuzMatch out on its misguidance.
That said, the users and marketers of this app are not representative of Muslims generally, and I believe most of us, men and women, will find the views being promoted here offensive.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aKHITFim-gc
Being tasked as "qawwamuna ala nisaa'" should not feel to you like a privilege or a license to tyranny; it is, as Rasulullah said about anyone appointed as a judge; like being killed without a knife. Western tropes of pseudo masculinity are not going to equip you for this responsibility...they will ensure you perform your duty poorly.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7fUgpWN18M
Ask any non-Muslim in the West, and you will discover how apparently difficult it is to find a girlfriend or boyfriend; how hard it is to find intimacy. Nobody "falls into zina"; it is something kuffar work for, strive for, even take courses on how to make it happen. Yet, we have Muslim men saying that sisters are putting them in danger of "falling into zina" if they won't lower their mahrs and expectations of a husband. It is pure gaslighting, and tremendously unmanly.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kilZn5FZCPI