What does the Hebrew word "Mussar" mean and where is it in the Bible? ❦ Mussar Conversation #14
START HERE: https://mussar.center We finally made it to "Mussar"! What does this Hebrew word actually mean? Where is Mussar in the Bible? Does it mean the same thing in biblical and modern Hebrew? Why do you hear it pronounced two different ways? And should you spell it "Mussar" or "Musar"? We'll answer all these questions and then look at three verses using this word which are all related to our first convo about listening and loving, but with a new twist - Mussar is all about engaging. With that understanding, any surprise the Hebrew word "mussar" is related to the word for "saw"?
START HERE: https://mussar.center Imagine losing all your inhibitions and being totally free. What do you look like? How do you talk to people? How different would that be from how you are now? People drink to lose their inhibitions and be their real selves, but what if there was another way? If the truth sets you free, what do lies do? How are you lying to yourself and the world? And what if the biggest lie was that you aren't? These are some of the tough questions we'll face in this conversation. We'll also talk about how you have both a masculine and a feminine side and explore how Mussar practice can help you become a more whole person.
START HERE: https://mussar.center Think about that one thing you've been tempted to do...and tell yourself you're free to do it. How do you feel? Now tell yourself you're just as free to not do it. What happens? We deeply and desperately need to feel free. But how? Where's the real freedom? Maybe if you just did whatever you felt like and followed your heart's impulses? Or what if that just made things worse? We're about to get our answers by looking at two Hebrew words and then looking way past them to their chaotic opposites. Is it worth an hour of your life to feel more free than you've ever felt before?
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#Mussar #Freedom #Love
START HERE: https://mussar.center There is evil in the world and if you haven't already encountered it firsthand, you will. When we come face-to-face with the reality of evil we're tempted to become cold in one of two ways - either the grumpy emoji takes over and we get hard, reactive, and closed, or the yawning emoji kicks in and we stop caring and become bored and cynical. That temptation to grow cold is one of the greatest threats to the world today. Nihilism suggests that nothing really matters, that your life is meaningless, and that you should probably just give up. The problem is that cold nihilistic hearts don't just live in a cold world - they create a cold world. That's why it will take a movement of Mussar practitioners with warm, open, caring hearts to save the world.
START HERE: https://mussar.center This is where it gets fun! Every word in Hebrew comes from a verb, and every verb belongs to a family of related words. Not only that, but these families either mean a thing or its opposite! For the next five conversations we're going look at the family of Hebrew words that "yasar" belongs to and, just like we've been doing all along, let that take us to some deep places. Let's start by talking about how limiting yourself in one area can enable you to expand in others. Most of us didn't feel so good about "restriction" when we were kids, but self-imposed restrictions can be the best thing that ever happened to your values and goals! We'll finish with a surprise Mussar assignment and, as always, a blessing.
START HERE: https://mussar.center If you didn't know what you were feeling and needing you would literally die. For instance, how long would you last if you couldn't brain "I feel thirsty, I need water"? Our whole lives consist of doing things to feel certain ways and meet specific needs. That's why Marshall Rosenberg called the simple act of trying to understand each other's feelings and needs 'the language of life' and put it at the heart of Nonviolent Communication - because it's the best way of compassionately connecting with someone and showing that you really understand them. This is our third conversation about how to 'be mochiach'. I hope it will also be your first step on the lifelong path of the empath.
ALSO READ & DOWNLOAD the 'Mussar Guide to Hard Conversations': https://archive.org/details/nonviolent-communication
START HERE: https://mussar.center Now that we've talked about the inner work of Mussar and how much of it is focused on specific character qualities or 'middot', let's look at the verb behind this noun. It may help to explain how exactly this Hebrew term for quantitative measurements in three-dimensional space came to mean your capacity for uniquely human and divine attributes in the realm of the soul and spirit. Not to mention answering questions like: Why does God ultimately treat you the way you treat other people? What should you do if you're worried about the next generation and want to make a difference? How can understanding whether you're a 'large, medium, or small' save you from pushing people until they snap? And most importantly, how can you get more divine inspiration and energy (Ruach HaKodesh) in your life?
48 Middot (Simple): https://www.mussar.center/lists/48
48 Middot (Detailed): https://www.mussar.center/lists/middot
48 Ma'alot (Steps): https://www.mussar.center/lists/maalot
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START HERE: https://mussar.center Every word in Hebrew comes from a verb, so what's the action word behind Mussar? Oh wait a minute, that action word actually means at least five things, you say? And Mussar is basically a practice of doing those things for myself? What about the first time that action word is used in the Torah, how is that about practicing deep listening and pausing when things start going wrong to ask myself something? And how is Mussar connected to the ancient "Shema" prayer? Can it really help me enter into that beautiful circle of coming to know and love the human and divine Other?
START HERE: https://mussar.center The way you move really hot food around in your mouth. Moonlight on water. When you're about to introduce someone and forget their name. The day after tomorrow. That crazy urge to squish cuteness. People who spend lots of time and little money at coffeeshops. What do these things have in common? There's no English word for them! Same goes for Mussar. It's a vocabulary, a language. Without Mussar we don't have words for things - things we really need, things that aren't as real to us otherwise. Speaking of which! Let's look at some Hebrew Mussar words that have no English equivalent.
START HERE: https://mussar.center How do you feel about how "toxic masculinity" is talked about? Have you observed it to be a thoughtful and necessary conversation about hurtful extremes or more of a hatefest that demonizes masculinity and makes men feel bad? Why isn't anybody talking about "toxic femininity"? The reality is that we all have a masculine and a feminine side. Destructive aggression is real, but could there also be constructive aggression? The great news is that there is a place to take out your aggression and it is the arena of Mussar work. Man or woman - if your high testosterone has left you feeling misunderstood and marginalized, there's room for you on the path of Mussar. Not to mention, the world needs you. So let's do this!