Do you care too much about what other people think about you? It would help if you stopped caring. James explains in this YoutTube Shorts three reasons to stop caring what others think about you for this Thoughtful Thursday video. Recent Articles: What Your 20s Are For: 20 Most Important Things To Focus On In Your 20s - https://bit.ly/3Ofe6uu The Complete Guide For How To Focus On Yourself - https://bit.ly/3sdoCJA 30 Reasons For The Great Resignation - https://bit.ly/3xutXj1 How Can A Man Understand His Way? 21 Ways! - https://bit.ly/3rgNEpQ The Ultimate Guide for How to Host a Housewarming Party - https://bit.ly/3Ft20Zw How Does Mental Health Affect Your Life? 5 Tips To Improve Your Life - https://bit.ly/33BuSBq The Myth of Toxic Masculinity in a Gynocentric Social Order - https://bit.ly/3nxGAUS The Loneliness Epidemic and Social Media Paradox - https://bit.ly/340Mjf4 Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 Here are three reasons to stop caring what other people think of you. First, stop caring about other's opinions of you. Guess what?! Their opinions don't affect you. Second, don't allow other people to tell you how to live your life. People like to tell people what to do. When they don't even understand that the person, the actions that they are taking are being done for perfectly rational reasons. Stop caring what other people think about you or tell you what to do when it comes to living your own life. You are responsible for living your own life. Guess what? That person is too. Third, you are in control of your own life. Don't let people, especially toxic people, push you around. Why do you need to stop caring what other people think of you? Comment below! mental health awareness stop caring what people think peoples opinions of you Disclaimer: Secure Single provides a forum for a diverse variety of perspectives, ideas, experiences, and resources and does not take official stances. All writers speak exclusively for themselves. Concurrently, any quotes, shares, reposts, interviews, etc., do not imply endorsement by Secure Single LLC or its curators. Secure Single does not give health, relationship, or financial advice. Secure Single's content is intended to be used and must be used for informational purposes only. James' opinions are his own and do not represent Secure Single. Now go live your best single life! #SecureSingle #ThriveAsASinglePerson #ThrivingSolo ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2b4F2YzxZTg

In this Secure Single video, James goes over five types of negative thinking patterns and cognitive distortions. More info and links are below! ?? Secure Single is a website and channel dedicated to helping singles to thrive as a single person. We provide singles with information, tools, and practical guidance to help you flourish and fulfill your life calling. The single life values are autonomy, freedom, security, diversity, and flexibility. Embrace the single life and thrive as a single person! Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecureSingle Learn how to start your first YouTube Channel or to improve your current YouTube Channel with Sean Cannell's Video Ranking Academy: https://courses.seancannell.com/a/7802/vCa9FrY2 - Sean Cannell Courses https://courses.seancannell.com/a/20309/vCa9FrY2 - Video Ranking Academy https://courses.seancannell.com/a/37664/vCa9FrY2 - VRA Web class Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music and sound effects: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns (Part 2) Time Stamps: 0:00 - 00:16 - Introduction 00:17 - 00:54 - Brief Overview 00:55 - 05:55 - 1. 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns 05:56 - 06:29 - Summary 06:30 - 06:38 - Question Of The Day 06:39 - 06:56 - Conclusion 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns (Part 2) Summary: When you allow negative thinking patterns to control your life, then you will find yourself stuck and unable to get things done in your life. There are many different types of negative thinking patterns and cognitive distortions that can affect your daily life. First, there are five main types of negative thinking patterns of cognitive distortions to keep in mind in your daily life. They are: Negative Rumination is continuously focusing on only the negative outcomes, which leads to feelings of being stuck, anxious, and even depressed. The logical extreme of negative rumination leads to nihilism and fatalism. Overthinking is always trying to think of and to plan for every possible scenario, possible outcome, trying to understand every single little thing which is impossible, and overthinking is essentially about attempting to control that which is out of your control in an effort so that you can try to avoid pain or failure which is impossible in life. Cynical hostility is a way of thinking and reacting that is characterized by angry mistrust of other people ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t35HqSLSXuc

In this Secure Single video, James explains why you can be your own queen and leave the Prince Charming and happily ever after myths behind. More info and links below! ?? Secure Single is a website and channel dedicated to helping singles to thrive as a single person. We provide singles with information, tools, and practical guidance to help you flourish and fulfill your life calling. The single life values are security, diversity, autonomy, and flexibility. Embrace the single life and thrive as a single person! Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ Related articles: Prince Charming, Princess Syndrome, And The Big Life About Happily Ever After - https://www.securesingle.com/singles-happily-ever-after-lie-trap/ Learn how to start your first YouTube Channel or to improve your current YouTube Channel with Sean Cannell's Video Ranking Academy: https://courses.seancannell.com/a/7802/vCa9FrY2 - Sean Cannell Courses https://courses.seancannell.com/a/20309/vCa9FrY2 - Video Ranking Academy https://courses.seancannell.com/a/37664/vCa9FrY2 - VRA Web class Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 Be Your Own Queen: Prince Charming Myth, Princess Syndrome, And The Big Lie About Happily Ever After Time Stamps: 0:00 - 0:11 - Introduction 0:12 - 1:44 - 1. Brief overview 1:45 - 2:23 - 2. Marriage is not happily ever after 2:24 - 4:04 - 3. Combat the happily ever after myth 4:05 - 4:40 - 4. Leave the Princess Syndrome behind 4:41 - 5:29 - 5. Be your own queen by being single 5:30 - 5:36 - Question of the Day 5:37 - 5:56 - Conclusion Be Your Own Queen: Prince Charming Myth, Princess Syndrome, And The Big Lie About Happily Ever After Summary: You are less likely to find someone who will sweep you off your feet in this day and age. There is no such thing as happily ever after. Happily ever after is a myth that Disney movies made popular. Women no longer need to marry because they are free and independent to pursue their own interests. The first reason is that marriage is not happily ever after. The second reason is to fight against the happily ever after myth. The third reason is to leave the princess syndrome behind. The fourth reason is that you can be your own Queen. Women can rule their own kingdoms once they stop believing in the Princess Syndrome and in happily ever after. You can be a queen without a king. You don't need a Prince Charming. Disclaimer: ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hv0zB7lypr4

In this Secure Single video, James goes over five October activities for singles to do this fall. More info and links are below! ?? Secure Single is a website and channel dedicated to helping singles to thrive as a single person. We provide singles with information, tools, and practical guidance to help you flourish and fulfill your life calling. The single life values are autonomy, freedom, security, diversity, and flexibility. Embrace the single life and thrive as a single person! Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecureSingle Odysee: https://odysee.com/@SecureSingle:1 Related Articles: 5 October Activities For Singles To Do This Fall - https://www.securesingle.com/5-october-activities-for-singles-fall/ 10 Fall Activities For For Singles - https://www.securesingle.com/10-fall-activities-for-singles/ Learn how to start your first YouTube Channel or to improve your current YouTube Channel with Sean Cannell's Video Ranking Academy: https://courses.seancannell.com/a/7802/vCa9FrY2 - Sean Cannell Courses https://courses.seancannell.com/a/20309/vCa9FrY2 - Video Ranking Academy https://courses.seancannell.com/a/37664/vCa9FrY2 - VRA Web class Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music and sound effects: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 5 October Activities For Singles To Do This Fall (Part 2) Time Stamps: 00:00 - 00:11 - Introduction 00:12 - 01:17 - Brief Overview 01:18 - 01:51 - 1. Hot Air Balloon Ride 01:52 - 02:45 - 2. Oktoberfest 02:46 - 03:21 - 3. Fall Festivals 03:22 - 03:48 - 4. Bonfire 03:49 - 04:16 - 5. Hayride 04:17 - 04:51 - Summary 04:52 - 04:59 - Question Of The Day 05:00 - 05:20 - Conclusion Disclaimer: Secure Single provides a forum for a diverse variety of perspectives, ideas, experiences, and resources and does not take official stances. The views expressed in this video or on this channel do not necessarily reflect the views, beliefs, or opinions of Secure Single. Now go live your best single life! Secure Single may receive a commission from some affiliate links that are included in the description. #SecureSingle #ThriveAsASinglePerson ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUj9MNpVNNQ