Do you want to know the ultimate secret to success? James delves into the age-old debate of hard work versus smart work in this video. Discover the differences between the two approaches and learn which one is more likely to lead you to success. Whether you believe in grinding it out or prefer a strategic approach, this video will provide valuable insights to help you achieve your goals. Take advantage of this vital discussion to optimize your path to success! Thriving Solo: How to Flourish and Live Your Perfect Life (Without A Soulmate) is now available on Amazon: Paperback - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJSP19DW Kindle- https://www.amazon.com/Thriving-Solo-Flourish-Perfect-Soulmate-ebook/dp/B0CKL13763 Read articles on Secure Single's website: Website - https://www.securesingle.com Hard Work Vs Smart Work: Which Leads To Success? Time Stamps: Intro - 00:00 - 00:28 Challenging The Belief About Hard Work - 00:29 - 00:50 Hard Work Versus Smart Work - 00:51 - 01:32 Two Examples - 01:33 - 02:21 Finding The Balance - 02:22 - 03:01 Outro - 03:02 - 03:16 Disclaimer: Secure Single provides a forum for a diverse variety of perspectives, ideas, experiences, and resources and does not take official stances. James' views and opinions are his own and do not represent Secure Single. Concurrently, any blurbs, recommendations, quotes, shares, reposts, interviews, etc., do not mean endorsement by Secure Single LLC or its curators. Secure Single does not give health, medical, relationship, travel, or financial advice. Secure Single does not provide advice of any kind. Secure Single's content is intended to be used and must be used for educational and informational purposes only. Now go live your best single life! ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKo_qtIhu6k

In this Secure Single Video, James discusses the great friendship depression for men amidst the loneliness epidemic. More info and links are below! ?? Secure Single is a website and channel dedicated to helping singles to thrive as a single person. We provide singles with information, tools, and practical guidance to help you flourish and fulfill your life calling. The single life values are autonomy, freedom, security, diversity, and flexibility. Embrace the single life and thrive as a single person! Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecureSingle Video Sources: Men's Social Circles Are Shrinking - https://www.americansurveycenter.org/why-mens-social-circles-are-shrinking/ The State Of American Friendship: Change, Challenges, And Loss - https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/the-state-of-american-friendship-change-challenges-and-loss/ Learn how to start your first YouTube Channel or to improve your current YouTube Channel with Sean Cannell's Video Ranking Academy: https://courses.seancannell.com/a/7802/vCa9FrY2 - Sean Cannell Courses https://courses.seancannell.com/a/20309/vCa9FrY2 - Video Ranking Academy https://courses.seancannell.com/a/37664/vCa9FrY2 - VRA Web class Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music and sound effects: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 The Great Friendship Depression For Men Amidst The Loneliness Epidemic Time Stamps: 00:00 - 00:10 - Introduction 00:11 - 00:43 - Brief Overview 00:44 - 02:05 - 1. Highest Decline In Friendship For Men 02:06 - 04:55 - 2. Men Have Smaller Friendship Circles 04:56 - 06:15 - 3. Millennials And Loneliness 06:16 - 08:16 - 4. Where Do Most People Make Friends Today? 08:17 - 09:49 - 5. Focus On Friendship And Creating A Community 09:50 - 10:22 - Summary 10:23 - 10:27 - Question Of The Day 10:28 - 10:45 - Conclusion The Great Friendship Depression For Men Amidst The Loneliness Epidemic Summary: There is a loneliness epidemic happening today and there has been a decline in friendships over the past decade for both men and women. However, men have been the hardest hit when it comes to having fewer friends today. Millennials are also experiencing loneliness more compared to other generations and researchers have different explanations for why this is. The first point is that it has been found that men are experiencing the highest decline of friendship today. Men are seeing and expe ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GW1iDQFRH5E

In this Secure Single video, James goes over five types of negative thinking patterns and cognitive distortions. More info and links are below! ?? Secure Single is a website and channel dedicated to helping singles to thrive as a single person. We provide singles with information, tools, and practical guidance to help you flourish and fulfill your life calling. The single life values are autonomy, freedom, security, diversity, and flexibility. Embrace the single life and thrive as a single person! Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecureSingle Learn how to start your first YouTube Channel or to improve your current YouTube Channel with Sean Cannell's Video Ranking Academy: https://courses.seancannell.com/a/7802/vCa9FrY2 - Sean Cannell Courses https://courses.seancannell.com/a/20309/vCa9FrY2 - Video Ranking Academy https://courses.seancannell.com/a/37664/vCa9FrY2 - VRA Web class Secure Single uses artgrid.io for b-roll videos: Get two months of artgrid.io for free - https://artgrid.io/James-402269 Secure Single uses artlist.io for background music and sound effects: Get two months of artlist.io for free - https://artlist.io/James-1567526 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns (Part 2) Time Stamps: 0:00 - 00:16 - Introduction 00:17 - 00:54 - Brief Overview 00:55 - 05:55 - 1. 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns 05:56 - 06:29 - Summary 06:30 - 06:38 - Question Of The Day 06:39 - 06:56 - Conclusion 5 Types Of Negative Thinking Patterns (Part 2) Summary: When you allow negative thinking patterns to control your life, then you will find yourself stuck and unable to get things done in your life. There are many different types of negative thinking patterns and cognitive distortions that can affect your daily life. First, there are five main types of negative thinking patterns of cognitive distortions to keep in mind in your daily life. They are: Negative Rumination is continuously focusing on only the negative outcomes, which leads to feelings of being stuck, anxious, and even depressed. The logical extreme of negative rumination leads to nihilism and fatalism. Overthinking is always trying to think of and to plan for every possible scenario, possible outcome, trying to understand every single little thing which is impossible, and overthinking is essentially about attempting to control that which is out of your control in an effort so that you can try to avoid pain or failure which is impossible in life. Cynical hostility is a way of thinking and reacting that is characterized by angry mistrust of other people ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t35HqSLSXuc

Do you think there is something wrong with self-love? James goes over the power of self-love in this YouTube Shorts. YouTube 20% Off First Twelve Months Special Offer on Secure Single's Substack: https://securesingle.substack.com/youtubetwentypercenttwelvemonths Follow Secure Single on social media: Website: https://www.securesingle.com/ Substack: https://securesingle.substack.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecureSingle Odysee: https://odysee.com/@SecureSingle Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SecureSingle/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/secure_single Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/secure_single/ The Power Of Self-Love Shorts The power of self-love goes against what our society wants you to embrace. Our culture wants you to focus on romantic love or live a life in fear. Self-love is vital for singles to know, understand, and practice. It is the love whereby you learn to love yourself. It requires introspection. Self-love requires dedication. Self-love requires you to learn about yourself. Some people may call self-love selfish in a culture that obsesses over romantic love. On the contrary, there is nothing more natural than self-love. Self-interest follows from self-love. What do you think of self-love? Let us know in the comments below! Subscribe to Secure Single's Substack: https://securesingle.substack.com intrapersonal relationship secure single social commentary single men single women shorts Disclaimer: Secure Single provides a forum for a diverse variety of perspectives, ideas, experiences, and resources and does not take official stances. All writers speak exclusively for themselves. Concurrently, any blurbs, recommendations, quotes, shares, reposts, interviews, etc., do not mean endorsement by Secure Single LLC or its curators. Secure Single does not give health, medical, relationship, travel, or financial advice. Secure Single does not provide advice of any kind. Secure Single's content is intended to be used and must be used for informational purposes only. Writers’ opinions are their own and do not represent Secure Single. Now go live your best single life! #SecureSingle #ThriveAsASinglePerson #ThrivingSolo ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EV6fqNowyEQ