Dealing with the Negative Media Towards Men's Issues
AVFM has put on a great conference that has helped in so many ways. One of those ways was the amount of mainstream media coverage we received. Quite a bit. Much of this coverage was negative and I think this calls us to try and strategize a response to such negativity. This video looks at some possibilities and suggests we need to use soundbites as a way to combat some of the negative coverage. It also asks that people use the comments section to discuss and create soundbites they think would be helpful.
Here are some of the soundbites men have suggested:
All too often people have used testosterone as yet another way to bash men. Alan Alda started it off as a gallant white knight in the 1960's by claiming that men were testosterone poisoned. This little vid will give you the scoop on the reality of testosterone.
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Janice, Paul, and Tom discuss the Gillette commercial and the recent APA Guidelines.
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Janice . https://www.youtube.com/user/StudioBrule and http://www.studiobrule.com/
Tom https://menaregood.com
Paul https://anearformen.com
PATREON Tom . https://patreon.com/menaregood
PATREON Pau; https://www.patreon.com/PaulElam
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Piers Morgan, MRA!https://www.theweek.co.uk/98962/why-men-s-rights-activists-are-boycotting-gillette
New APA Guidelines for Work with Boys and Men https://www.apa.org/about/policy/boys-men-practice-guidelines.pdf
Misandric Gillette Video https://youtu.be/koPmuEyP3a0
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOkUPcMQexA
Whether it's a loss or PTSD the process is very similar. We need to tell and integrate our story. Everyone has a different way to do this and men and women differ remarkably.
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
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The Way Men Heal
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Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
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Huge Men Are Good Mug
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Men Are Good Hat
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3jbGGfy5bs
Tom talks with Moiret Allegiere about his new book Howling at the Slutwalk Moon: Contrarian Ramblings in the Age of Conformity. Buy the book here:
Paperback $17 https://www.amazon.com/Howling-Slutwalk-Moon-Contrarian-Conformity/dp/107571074X
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Read the first chapter here: https://menaregood.com/wordpress/remembering-rebellion/
or on Moiret's Blog . https://moiretallegiere.wordpress.com/2018/11/10/remembering-rebellion/
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https://www.minds.com/Moiret
https://www.bitchute.com/channel/EvbGZyTZSraY/
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJtHtIPeQdI
https://twitter.com/sheabutterfemme?lang=en
https://twitter.com/sheabutterfemme/status/1220715255057264642?lang=en
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4187912/Secret-Facebook-Bad-Girls-Advice-brags-domestic-violence.html
Tom's site on Men in Social Work
https://meninsocialwork.org
A letter he wrote to NASW
https://meninsocialwork.org/letter/
Is Social Work Following Its Own Code of Ethics?
https://meninsocialwork.org/2017/12/13/is-social-work-following-its-own-code-of-ethics/
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Toms Books info:
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcpzTi9-wFo
Paul Elam and Tom Golden talk about the many ways that misandry has fouled the mental health system. Each give their top 4 things they hate about misandry and mental health. They conclude by discussing questions men can ask prospective therapists to determine if they are "male friendly."
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8V799xIodE
Paul, Tom, and Janice agree that this 1979 film is a Blue Pill father's rights movie--with powerful scenes of the father-son bond--but disagree about the degree of its sympathy for Joanna, the mother who abandons her son; we also note the film's inadequate treatment of the realities of custody disputes.
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Toms Books info:
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FqgKDXT-CE
Science or Feminism: Who do you Trust? Toxic Masculinity vs Precarious Manhood
Tom lays out the basics of precarious manhood and then shows how this research demolishes the feminist driven ideas of toxic masculinity.
A Vandello study
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19025286/
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Toms Books info:
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEKe2xUVRkA
Here's an article by Moiret Allegiere on this topic that is worth reading:
https://moiretallegiere.wordpress.com/2018/11/21/let-boys-play/
Tom's book on amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Helping-Mothers-Closer-Their-Sons/dp/096546492X
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2583786/
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4350266/
Hines, M., Constantinescu, M., & Spencer, D. (2015). Early androgen exposure and human gender development. Biology of sex differences, 6, 3. doi:10.1186/s13293-015-0022-1
Early androgen exposure and human gender development
Lamminmaki A, Hines M, Kuiri-Hanninen T, Kilpelainen L, Dunkel L, Sankilampi U. Testosterone measured in infancy predicts subsequent sex-typed behavior in boys and in girls. Horm Behav. 2012;61:611–6. doi: 10.1016/j.yhbeh.2012.02.013. [PubMed] [CrossRef]
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