Have you ever been swallowed by a snake? I bet you have. This story, which has that title, is about the experience we have when we face trauma. It's about a man who intentionally is swallowed by a snake and how he gets out. His experience offers us a template for the crappy experience of being traumatized and also offers some hope of getting out. The protagonist found that repeated cuts to the snake's belly eventually got him out of the trouble. What do you do to take a chunk from the snake's belly? ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFIvcUyO9b4

Tom has a look at the recent research on the Tendency towards Interpersonal Victimhood and how this information is critical for men. Research https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886920303238 Video on Relational Aggression https://youtu.be/umZEqHF7GF4 Tom's Subscribestar https://www.subscribestar.com/red-pill-oasis Tom's Patreon https://patreon.com/menaregood Tom's web site https://menaregood.com Twitter @trgolden Donate https://menaregood.com/wordpress/donations Toms Books info: https://menaregood.com/wordpress/tomsbooks Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm The Way Men Heal http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo Huge Men Are Good Mug http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr Men Are Good Hat http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWHaJI5ypYM

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feminist history of rape in Ontario https://www.press.uchicago.edu/ucp/books/book/chicago/I/bo3627292.html AVFM Article https://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/setting-the-record-straight/ Women in the workplace - Factories https://founders.archives.gov/documents/Hamilton/01-10-02-0001-0007 https://www.dol.gov/general/aboutdol/history/mono-regsafepart02 https://www.historyofosh.org.uk/timeline.html http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/Geo5/10-11/65 timeline of women in labor force http://www.seiu-uhw.org/archives/20663 graphs for women in workforce 1945 to 2015 https://www.dol.gov/wb/stats/NEWSTATS/facts/women_lf.htm##LFPWomenAge VOTE http://dorrrebellion.org/dorr.htm https://www.thoughtco.com/first-woman-to-vote-claimants-3530476 • In 1647, Margaret Brent of Maryland colony assumed her right to vote twice -- once for herself as a property owner and once for Cecil Calvert, Lord Baltimore, because he had given her a power of attorney. The governor denied her request. First Woman to Vote in Wyoming, illinoic, kansas • September 6, 1870: Louisa Ann Swain, Laramie, Wyoming. (Source: "Women of Achievement and Herstory," Irene Stuber) • 1869, unnamed. A likely misunderstanding: women were given the vote in December, 1869, but it's unlikely an election was held that year after suffrage was granted. 1883 - Women in Washington Territory Granted Full Voting Rights Claims for first women to vote https://www.thoughtco.com/first-woman-to-vote-claimants-3530476 First Woman to Vote in California 1868: Charley "Parkie" Parkhurst who voted as a man (Source: Highway 17: The Road to Santa Cruz by Richard Beal) First Woman to Vote in Illinois • Ellen Annette Martin, 1869. (Source: Early Illinois Women timeline, Alliance Library System, Illinois.) • In a municipal election in Illinois: Clara Colby. (Source: Illinois General Assembly resolution 90_HR0311) First Woman to Vote in Iowa First Woman to Vote in Kansas • General Election in Kansas: name not given (Source: Kansas State Historical Society timeline, from "First Woman to Vote at a General Election in Kansas," November 4, 1880) • Lincoln County: Mrs. Anna C. Ward (Source: A Souvenir History of Lincoln County, Kansas, by Elizabeth N. Barr, 1908) • o The last state to abolish property qualification was North Carolina in 1856 resulting in a close approximation to universal white male suffrage. However, tax-paying qualifications remained in five states in 1860 – Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Pennsylvania, Delaware and North Carolina. They survived in Pennsylvania and Rhode Island until the 20th century.[7] In addition, many poor whites were later disenfranchised. Tom's Subscribestar https://www.subscribestar.com/red-pill-oasis Tom's Patreon https://patreon.com/menaregood To ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXEXweYvYF0