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For this last session, let's delve into the uncomfortable. Not too far though. Just enough to keep you alert. Do you ever feel like we cannot survive without the people we love? That we're nothing without others? When you find someone sitting by themselves, do you try to bring them into the group and make them feel more...wanted? Or are you the person everyone seems to be worried about because you'd rather be alone? Have you embraced the title "introvert" to its fullest core? Are you worried you'd die alone with no friends and no lover? Do you have to struggle to keep boundaries and make others realize that you need the time alone? Let's talk about it. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbqdB2j3sKM

This is not a drill. If you understand french, you will realize how she skillfully packaged the dread and fear of this event by using sarcasm and humor. The first time I watched it, I couldn't even laugh. That's how hardcore the message was. She got mugged in the middle of the road, while people were watching, right on the street in Douala, Cameroon. For many of us in Cameroon, this is not even a surprising story. We've heard of uncles, aunts, cousins, etc. But to hear someone who lived the tell the tale is something else. I just had to react to this because that's how incredulous it felt when I first watched it. You can't make this up. Here's the original video: https://youtu.be/upGfCCBIT-M L'inconnue's channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDSBGzVQSdmSxN0aQ40-FDg She's one of my favourite Cameroonian YouTubers and I don't think she'll ever YouTube seriously. Which, in a way, is a good thing .Whenver she uploads, it's worth the time. --- Thank you for taking the time to watch this video. Kamga's the name. Moved from Cameroon to the US in 2018 to join my fiancée (now wife). I speak English and French. I love books, stoicism, and ideas. I'm in the pursuit of meaning in the work that I do, and connection with the world around me. I love writing - I think a lot; writing helps me clear things. I share what I know here in the hopes you'll find it relevant to your life. I'm on a mission to create a world where everyone does work that matters to them and makes them feel a part of the whole. SUPPORT THE CHANNEL:  Cashapp: https://cash.app/$kamgatchassa  PayPal: https://paypal.me/tchassakamga  Venmo: @Kamga-Tchassa  SHOP MY MERCH!  https://kamgas-store.myteespring.co/ Let's connect :  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kamgatchassa Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/tchassakamga  Medium: https://kamga.medium.com  Twitter: https://twitter.com/kamgatchassa  My podcast: https://anchor.fm/loving-creative-podcast  MY BOOKS : When A Boy Loves you - (Bandcamp) - https://kamga.bandcamp.com/   (Gumroad): https://gumroad.com/l/WABLY1  The Art and Science of Scribbling Ideas (Amazon) - https://amzn.to/3ogP7JW  Sign up for free on Robinhood using this link and we both get ONE FREE STOCK: https://join.robinhood.com/fnuh77  Get 2 FREE stocks when you deposit $100 in your Webull Brokerage Account: https://act.webull.com/ne/aDj7ZyCSCdRV/j3a/inviteUs/  CAMERA GEAR :  Main: https://amzn.to/3hwYmTW  Attach other canon lenses to your M50: https://amzn.to/384yRpX  Lenses: 1. Canon EF-M 15-45mm f/3.5-6.3 - https://amzn.to/3b47TRn 2. (FAVE) Canon EF-M 22mm f2 STM - https://amzn.to/2KPQLnz  3.YONGNUO YN35mm F2 Lens 1:2 AF/MF Wide-Angle Fixed/Prime Auto Focus Lens - https://amzn.to/351IjbH  4.Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 STM Len ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OUMubBcT1Uc

A rant, of course. About how much difference I encounter each day as a student in the US. Did you know I didn't drive a car until I moved here? Yeaup. More on that later. First, let's see if there's anything to glean from a hungry hyped hustler. Article on Work-Life Balance I mentioned in the video: https://medium.com/swlh/a-glass-of-work-life-balance-for-me-89048e33eebe?source=friends_link&sk=dc17fdc0ed8eaade3f0928c75cd7df29 Music from Musicbed. Get a free month by clicking on this link: https://www.musicbed.com/invite/OZjRx ----: https://instagram.com/tchassakamga https://twitter.com/tchassakamga https://medium.com/@tchassakamga The Loving Creative Podcast on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-loving-creative-with-kamga-tchassa/id1462844185 ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKHEnNZvysg