Blog: http://psychreviews.org/narcissistic-control/ This is part 3 of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder series. This episode dives deeper into the psyche of a Narcissist and if you don’t understand them now, by the end of this video you will. The value of this knowledge has to do with consciousness. When you don’t know how you are being manipulated, it’s easy to be confused and helpless. Making abuse conscious, or making anything conscious for that matter, allows you the opportunity to take your control back. Intro 0:00 Family origins 1:00 Mirroring 2:45 Internalization 3:34 Transformation 5:08 Winning! 6:36 Leverage 8:08 Pygmalion 9:32 Love vs. objectification - What do you do for me? 9:58 The Golden Period (HG Tudor) - Idealization 10:47 The mask falls off - Devaluation 11:30 Return to the golden period 12:40 Unconsciousness of the victim - Triangulation 14:31 Going too far - Who discards who first?15:59 Informers - "Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in 16:57 Another layer of no contact 18:26 Healing 19:15 Reciprocity, healing, returning to the true self and realizations 20:14 Brochures of happiness 21:19 Outro 22:55 Part 1: On Narcissism https://youtu.be/p5bkxLpQ0Qo Part 2: The False Self https://youtu.be/jhMNMSP_99Q Part 4: Treatment of Narcissistic Personality Disorder https://youtu.be/a5rk8PrA1sY Resources: N-Magnet: Narcissist's Ideal Victim? – by Sam Vaknin: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cv5VncdRqYs Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited by Sam Vaknin: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3fJGZOO Paperback: https://amzn.to/33qaOPn  Sam Vaknin's overview of Narcissism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xd9KwpL7U_I&t=1089s Sitting Target: How and Why the Narcissist chooses you by H. G. Tudor: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3fJPcm0 Paperback: https://amzn.to/3fJILj3 Psychopath Free by Jackson MacKenzie: Kindle: https://amzn.to/2JivsKd Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qaEzh2 Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare by Shahida Arabi: Kindle: https://amzn.to/2Jhsru1 Paperback: https://amzn.to/36dXmA6 The Narcissist's Secrets by Leyla Loric and Richard Grannon: Kindle: https://amzn.to/39nZAid How to take revenge on a narcissist by Leyla Loric and Richard Grannon: Kindle: https://amzn.to/36fcw8g The Trial by Franz Kafka: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3o3M73h Paperback: https://amzn.to/3ljF0So Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3lfT3Zq Paperback: https://amzn.to/2VfUDQc The Futurological Congress by Stanislaw Lem: Kindle: https://amzn.to/36iP7ml Paperback: https://amzn.to/3lfnMWl Credits: Person hiding face and showing posture of shame By Francisco de Goya - Museo del prado, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=820886 Waaah! By Kyle Flood from Victoria, British Columbia, Canada - W ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU2QdxwVCuQ

Blog: http://psychreviews.org/the-art-of-seeing-csikszentmihalyi-robinson/ In the ambitious study "The Art of Seeing: An Interpretation of the Aesthetic Encounter", Csikszentmihalyi and his associates analyze how a person experiences and appreciates art. Through the use of questionnaires of art experts, both the reason why we like art, and what we can do to enjoy it more, are explored. Intro: 0:00 What is good art? 1:21 Artist as Neurotic 1:51 The Head and the Heart 4:39 Different people, different experiences 6:10 Art and Flow 7:22 The Art of Seeing (How to appreciate art) 8:35 Outro: 20:54 The Art of Seeing: An Interpretation of the Aesthetic Encounter ~ Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Rick E. Robinson: Paperback: https://amzn.to/2Jbn8fM 1001 Paintings you must see before you die: https://amzn.to/325vZ9F Credits: Stock photos, paintings and footage from Storyblocks and Wikipedia Music: Beethoven - Sonata No. 30 in E Major, Op. 109 - III. Andante molto cantabile ed espressivo - Ivan Ilic Mussorgsky - Pictures at an Exhibition - Chiara Bertoglio Schubert - Fantasy in C Major Op.15 D.760 'Wanderer' - II. Adagio - Daniel Blanch Paintings in order of appearance: Jean Germain Drouais - Marius at Minturnae Jean-Baptiste-Siméon Chardin - Still-Life with Jar of Olives Antonio Canova - Psyche Revived by Cupid's Kiss Pablo Picasso - Melancholy Woman Edvard Munch - Melancholy Vincent Van Gogh - Wheatfield with Crows Vincent Van Gogh - The Sower at sunset Vincent Van Gogh - The Sower Ferdinand Hodler - Rhythmic landscape on Lake Geneva Joaquín Sorolla - Walk on the beach Ferdinand Hodler - Lake Geneva from Chexbres Vincent Van Gogh - Sunflowers (F458), repetition of the 4th version (yellow background) Johannes Vermeer - The Music Lesson Vincent Van Gogh - The Langlois Bridge at Arles (F570) JMW Turner - Snow Storm - Steam-Boat off a Harbour's Mouth Juan Gris - Portrait of Picasso Vincent Van Gogh - Café Table with Absinthe Diego Velázquez - Las Meninas Katsushika Hokusai - Red Fuji southern wind clear morning John Singer Sargeant - Madame X Peder Severin Krøyer - Hip, Hip, Hurrah! Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec - Equestrienne (at the cirque fernando) Julius Exner - Gondola excursion Édouard Vuillard - Garden at Vaucresson Jackson Pollack - Number One (Lavender Mist) Kazimir Malevich - Black Suprematic Square Kazimir Malevich and Nikolai Suetin - Black Circle Max Liebermann - In the field Johannes Vermeer - Girl with a pearl earring Rembrandt - Self-portrait Jan Willem Pieneman - The Battle of Waterloo H. A. Brendekilde - Young girls picking anemones in a spring forest H. A. Brendekilde - A wooded path in autumn John Atkinson Grimshaw - Evening glow Louise Élisabeth Vigée Le Brun - Self Portrait in a Straw Hat Edward Hopper - Nighthawks Giorgione - The t ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c3b-T81iBo